The 'I want to write a book' phase

We’ve all been there: staring at a blank screen or a notebook, thinking about writing that memoir or murder mystery. It’s a major flex, and it lowkey proves you’ve got grit. But actually doing it? That’s a whole different vibe. According to a 2021 ThriftBooks survey, over 50% of people think they have a solid book idea, but only 15% even start, and a measly 8% actually finish. If you’re feeling called out, you’re not alone.

The expert advice

We caught up with some pros to see how to actually get the job done. Bestselling author Jami Attenberg notes that writing is often about catharsis and expression, calling the process “a powerful act of imagination and self-affirmation,” according to novelist and foundation co-founder Marita Golden.

How to get started

  • Read everything: It’s non-negotiable. Attenberg says you need to know your influences and the “vibe” of the book you want to write.
  • Know your 'why': Novelist Christopher Moore suggests constantly asking yourself what you’re actually saying. It doesn’t need to be deep, just unique to your perspective.
  • Research: Dig into what’s already been written on your subject so you can build out your own characters.
  • Pick a date: Stop over-preparing. Set a start date and stick to it, even if your first day is just one paragraph.
  • Join a class: It’s a great way to find a community and learn the basics, Golden says.
  • Write a letter to yourself: Remember why you wanted to do this and what finishing would mean to you.
  • Just write scenes: You don’t need to go in order. If you’re stuck, jump to a scene where your characters can talk.

Don't edit while you write

Moore’s biggest tip? Stop trying to be perfect. Your expectation for yourself is likely the main character energy blocking your progress. Just get the draft done. “No one will ever know that, for a while, your masterpiece was absolute shit,” Moore says. So, say less, just start typing, and polish the mess later.

Why it matters

Writing is a massive personal challenge that can feel impossible, but breaking it down into these actionable steps helps you transition from 'aspiring author' to actually finishing a project.